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 Assalamu aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh all :) how's your weekend going?


We've had a nice day with hubby, alhamdulillah. In the morning I did some cleaning and then we went together for a walk and a flea market. I found one tunic for summer and a home dress. Then we came home and have been relaxing and watching a movie, and I cooked too. Tonight we will have tomato-meat-tuna-egg sauce with some boiled yam, sweet potato and plantain. Ma sha Allah. This is my happy bubble and happy to be here.


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I want to correct myself concerning the last post I made. I read it today and was surprised that I sounded so bitter? It was more about unnecessary guilt, but I want to say that of course forgiveness is the way and not waiting others to come and apologize. I clearly hadn't thought all the way through what I was writing, or how did I express myself. I tried to say that not everything is our fault. Sometimes it's a heavy burden to carry the blame on solely yourself, that's what I wanted to say. But what comes to forgiving even without an apology, it's the best we can do to ourselves. It's better for us to just gently let go without waiting something that might never come. And of course we wish for forgiveness from the things we have done too. And Allah's mercy and forgiveness is the mightiest.


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I don't have much else to write today, I just hope you all are doing fine. Let's still keep everyone in our prayers, and until next time,


Aisha

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